Big E has informed me that I scare people, men in particular.
When I first came to the Promised Land of Rain and Fog, lo these many years ago, I scared lots of people. Just walking across campus in my black boots of power, my black jeans, and my flannel, the people would part before me... not like Moses and the sea, but more like a wave of fleeing villagers before the invading Vikings. My normal at ease stance made people scuttle around me. (See that look The Tank is giving Big E? Ya I could do that.) And if I was pissed about something... I remember once, I was talking to some classmates and Big E ran silently up behind me, scooped me up onto his shoulders, and then proceeded to run across campus with me screaming wildly. When he put me down, back where the wild ride had begun, my classmates cringed backward and eyed Big E like a dead man walking. They obviously foresaw blood, carnage, or at least a throat strike. When I laughed until I cried and then introduced Big E, they looked at him like a man who has walked out of a blaze blissfully unaware that not everyone is immune to fire.
Big E blames my ability to disconcert on my East coast background and my urban childhood. I don't know... I think of myself as generally reasonable, unassuming, and even kind.. (really, I haven't used my Gaze of Death in years... and I wear colors now) but as he has recently reminded me, I apparently still know how to walk the walk.